What is Womens self-esteem? Definition: A woman's experience of being capable of meeting life's challenges and the feeling of being worthy of happiness. Women who have healthy or authentic self-esteem trust their own being to be constructive, responsible, and trustworthy. It is an inner state that can be nurtured and cultivated. A Womans Self-esteem is the level that you respect and value yourself as a lovable, worthwhile woman. Where Does Self-Esteem Come From? Our self-esteem develops and evolves throughout our lives as we build an image of ourselves through our experiences with different people and activities. Experiences during our childhood play a particularly large role in the shaping of our basic self-esteem. When we were growing up, our successes (and failures) and how we were treated by the members of our immediate family, by our teachers, coaches, religious authorities, and by our peers, all contributed to the creation of our basic self-esteem.

Saturday, May 7, 2011

Imagine that.....


Imagine never having to feel that you are less than, just because you have already compared yourself down so low that you become paranoid even before your day begins.
Women...we spend way too much time worrying about if our appearance will be acceptable. We underestimate the power of our own confidence and how it affects how others see us.
When a person walks in a room...the second she smiles, is when others begin to see her clearly and accept her for her self. To walk into a room already feeling defeated creates a huge cloud of smoke that no one can see through. All they are left with is their own thoughts and imagination of who you are.
Confidence is your best friend. There is not one person on this earth that is completely happy with what they look like on the outside. This is how is is meant to be as there is no one person created in the perfect image. The only perfect image is the one that you compare yourself to. That image is gaged by how you feel about yourself. You are in a sense the creator of your own comparisons.
Instead of starting your day worrying about the things you do not like about the way you look....try challenging yourself with a little game of thought...by taking every second day in all fairness to you and pick out what you do like about the way you look.

You will be amazed at just how much you will realize how much you have to offer in just that little game.
I dare you~

~D~

Posted by Relationships at 6:18 PM

3 comments:

  1. Grumpy old manMay 10, 2011 at 7:22 PM

    Hi Dorothy, I so agree with you, if you are not happy with yourself, it is not only an act of violence against yourself, it is also an act of violence against God, because He made you the way you are. Of course He also gave you the means to make yourself beautiful, so there is no need to not look your best. And confidence in my opinion is a woman's strongest weapon.

    Thanks for sharing Dorothy, hope your week is going as planned.
    Colin.

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  2. ChloebelleFebruary 24, 2012 at 1:10 AM

    Hi Dothy such a powerful words to remind me that the confidence we have is how we see ourselves in the mirror everyday since i am on my lowly phase of my life right now..Thanks.nice blog.

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  3. Harikesh ChauhanJune 5, 2013 at 4:54 AM

    his is my first time i visit here. I found so many entertaining stuff in your blog, especially its discussion. From the tons of comments on your articles, I guess I am not the only one having all the leisure here! Keep up the excellent work

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